Recently, I was suggested to read a book by Gary Chapman entitled, "The Five Love Languages". I received it in the mail today and immediately cracked it open to find out why my friend, Nik, found it so inspiring.
Although I haven't made huge strides in the 30 minutes I have been reading the book, I have discovered the FIRST love language: words of affirmation.
So, I challenge everyone to take on the challenge of professing words of encouragement and support. I Thessalonians states, "Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing."
SO DO IT.
:) I will let you know of my other discoveries of love at a later time!
Monday, January 23, 2012
Sunday, January 22, 2012
Every Second Counts
One of my goals of this new year is to pay it forward. In attempt to repay the many blessings I have received from others, I have decided to volunteer twice a week at the local nursing home called Twin Pines in Kirksville. Unfortunately, I have spent a lot of time in nursing homes and have developed a new found respect for those who work in nursing homes.
My first day helping the activities director consisted of helping residents get to the activities room, start a movie called "Every Second Counts", passing out snacks and drinks (as well as assisting with those who need it while eating), and lastly, returning the residents to their rooms. It was such an ironic day for me. First, it's funny to me that a movie is titled "Every Second Counts". Although I don't believe that a movie is necessarily a waste of time, it makes you more conscious of every minute you spend watching a hallmark-type movie. Second, these residents surely have something to say about the title alone. It is amazing to jump inside their lives for a while. Sure, some say they don't do much anymore...but they think, reminisce, and hope-something that people my age don't do much of.
I guess I don't necessarily have anything profound to say. Walking into a nursing home was extremely sad and depressing...because my last encounters with one were not enjoyable at all. However, am I supposed to ignore that it exists just because it scares me? They are people with many needs and little family. The least I can do is ask how they are or smile at them.
I guess facing some fears have some rewards...especially when the reward is a new 85 year old friend or two :)
Good night world!
My first day helping the activities director consisted of helping residents get to the activities room, start a movie called "Every Second Counts", passing out snacks and drinks (as well as assisting with those who need it while eating), and lastly, returning the residents to their rooms. It was such an ironic day for me. First, it's funny to me that a movie is titled "Every Second Counts". Although I don't believe that a movie is necessarily a waste of time, it makes you more conscious of every minute you spend watching a hallmark-type movie. Second, these residents surely have something to say about the title alone. It is amazing to jump inside their lives for a while. Sure, some say they don't do much anymore...but they think, reminisce, and hope-something that people my age don't do much of.
I guess I don't necessarily have anything profound to say. Walking into a nursing home was extremely sad and depressing...because my last encounters with one were not enjoyable at all. However, am I supposed to ignore that it exists just because it scares me? They are people with many needs and little family. The least I can do is ask how they are or smile at them.
I guess facing some fears have some rewards...especially when the reward is a new 85 year old friend or two :)
Good night world!
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